All this talk of boundaries, but what are boundaries? What categories or types of boundaries do you need to know about? Getting clear on the different types of limits and margins that exist and need our attention.

Boundaries, CodependenceEsther GoldsteinJune 7, 2022boundaries, setting boundaries in relationships, relationship counseling new york, relationships counseling nassau countyComment

10 Signs of An Emotionally Unavailable Man

You’re awake late at night and wondering why you’re feeling anxious in your relationship. Is he one of those “emotionally unavailable” men?

Read more to get some wisdom and guidance so you can feel calmer in your relationship.

Attachment Theory, Abandonment Trauma, Love and Relationships, Somatic PsychotherapyEsther GoldsteinJune 15, 2021Emdr for trauma, relationships and attachment, relationships counseling nassau county, emotional hunger counseling nassau, emotionally unavailable Comments

Learning to Love after Trauma

Survivors of trauma, just like anyone else, deserve to be able to have meaningful love relationships. Yet, just like a traveler needs to plan ahead and pack their "kit for the road", trauma survivors may hit some tricky steps in building relationships and may gain from knowing possible worries, bumps or confusion that may come up along the way.

Attachment Theory, Couples Counseling, TraumaEsther GoldsteinDecember 12, 2017relationships counseling nassau county, long island psychologist, trauma counseling for couples, relationship healing, psychotherapy for relationship conflictsComment

The "Safe Filter"

Relationship Counseling for Healthy Boundaries and Healing Co-dependent Patterns in Long Island,NY. Schedule a session with Anxiety and Relationship expert Esther Goldstein LCSW today.

What does it mean to feel safe? You feel safe when you know you're cared for, that you're protected from danger and you have someone who has their eye out for you. When you're choosing who to bring into your life, it's important to know how to assess the healthy people from the potentially dangerous people.

BoundariesEsther GoldsteinDecember 4, 2017boundaries, relationships, dating skills, trust in relationships, love, connection, relationships counseling nassau county, boundaries and limit settingComment

Forgiveness. Can I?

Carl Rogers wisely says, “The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.”

Forgiveness is one of the hardest lessons to learn and even more difficult to implement. At the same time, forgiveness is one of the first steps necessary in order to create a shift, a change, steering towards a new direction for yourself. How is it then, that we forgive ourselves for bad choices, habits, broken relationships, or having been stuck in the muck of "just getting-through-ness" for a while?

Boundaries, Anxiety, Anxiety in the Workplace, Abandonment TraumaEsther GoldsteinOctober 11, 2017forgiveness, self care, relationship counseling new york, relationships counseling nassau countyComment

Satiating the need for Emotional Connection

In the past blog I discussed the concept of emotional hunger.

If you’re in relationships that feel disconnected or where you're left thirsty for real, steady connections, read on. What are emotional needs? And what does it meant to feel emotionally satiated?

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Boundaries, Love and RelationshipsEsther GoldsteinSeptember 14, 2017relationships counseling nassau county, trust in relationships, healing emotional issues, emotional hunger counseling nassau, five towns counseling for anxiety, find-a-therapist-five-townsComment

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